Why Do People Still Do This?

Okay, I’m not a natural hair nazi. While I do choose to wear my hair in its natural state and encourage other women to embrace their natural curls/kinks/coils, I do also understand that some woman like relaxers and weaves and that’s never going to change. Honestly, I don’t care that much about what other people do to their own hair. I do, however, care about the negative and shameful mentality that African-Americans and women in particular perpetuate in regards to “black hair”. This leads me to the point of this post and this question….

Why are people still burning their scalps in the name of straight hair holiness??????!!!!!

While I do understand that the result in this video does not represent all circumstances, I do know (from years of pre-natural hair experience) that, MOST of the time, when we get our hair relaxed, it does burn.

So another question I ask is: Does the end justify the means?

See, this is why I went natural. I just couldn’t do it any longer. Poor child.

See where I found this video and the original post over at Clutch Magazine.

2 Comments on Why Do People Still Do This?

  1. Tamia
    September 14, 2011 at 3:01 pm (619 days ago)

    I think growing up you are pretty much taught to endure the pain but now that I’ve been natural for almost 6 years, I don’t think I could go back to relaxers. I’ve even made a vow that my own daughter (whenever I do decide to have children) will not get a “perm” either. I am anti-relaxer and firmly believe that 95% of the time you can achieve the same look WITHOUT the creamy crack (even if that means getting a sow-in).

    …just my two cents.

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  2. Akia
    October 19, 2011 at 3:32 pm (584 days ago)

    Agreed! Many naturals get their hair flat ironed and you’d think they have a relaxer. Trust, I have gotten weave-checked before and it was just a flat iron. I’m with you, I could never go back to burning my scalp up. But hey, some people can. Whatever floats their boat, I guess. Thanks for the love!

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